Intimate Love

One of the fundamentals of understanding love is that love comes from within oneself rather than from someone else.  Getting this understanding backwards is a not a subtle misunderstanding that usually leads to co-dependency.  It is true that someone else can help you to access that place of love within yourself and add to it, but this is not the same as being the source.  Not acknowledging or consciously accessing that the divine source of love within is where people often get very confused in relationships.   Another level of relationship confusion is the politically correct term “unconditional love”.  As […]

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Eros and Intimacy (Part 3)

The female essence needs one thing: to know it’s loved. If the male essence does not communicate to the female that she is loved, things don’t work so well. What the male essence needs is to know that it is succeeding and not failing. The difference in needs causes the male and female essences to communicate on different levels. All communication—in relationship, in lovemaking, and in everyday life—has to hold these messages. This is what we call meta-communication. By understanding these essences, we can give and receive in a way that uplifts the other person and allows space for than […]

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